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	<title>Trying not to BNeg &#187; entering the workforce</title>
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		<title>Same Story, Different Day</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Aug 2007 21:37:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cynthia Cotte Griffiths</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[careers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[entering the workforce]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>At the pool today, I spoke with the husband of a friend. He talked about how it was really getting her down to try and enter the workforce again after being home with the kids. I told him how I had started a second blog on this subject (I participate in a community blog for our city). He said we should get together as a support group. As I stood there in the water, I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At the pool today, I spoke with the husband of a friend. He talked about how it was really getting her down to try and enter the workforce again after being home with the kids. I told him how I had started a second blog on this subject (I participate in a community blog for our city). He said we should get together as a support group. As I stood there in the water, I realized there really was a need for all of us to talk.</p>
<p>Even if we find a job, most likely it will be below our capabilities. A recent interview for a position below the one I left ten years ago included anxiety by the interviewer over my computer skills. Ten to one odds my computer skills were far superior to hers and I had her job when I left, so in my mind&#8230;. ah, forget it.</p>
<p>Take a job below our skills to get back working? Just do something that&#8217;s fun even though it doesn&#8217;t pay? Hold out for the same type of job you left?</p>

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